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styler2002i
14-07-2008, 01:23 PM
Hi guys..

as most of you know already my son suffers from a blood disorder.. called beta thalassemia major.

well the time has come for him to have a bone marrow transplant. With me being the doner and having my stem cells frozen already its all systems go for the little ones treatment...

he starts his Chemotherapy on wednesday... and is put into insolation on the 27th of this month....

hopefully if everything goes well... he should be home for his 2nd birthday on the 13th september...

sorry if this post is a bit short of depth and information... as im really shitting bricks right now... i;ve never been so nervous about anything...

so if u can... remember my little one in ur prayers... and remember everyone suffering... for prayer... gives us all hope...

Ozzie

Moe
14-07-2008, 01:25 PM
Bro i will remember your little one in my prayers and make dua for him Inshallah he will overcome this time and inshallah have the best of health

Raz 323i
14-07-2008, 01:26 PM
Inshallah it will all work out for you for the best. Il make a dua for you and the little one

Raz

m3tiko
14-07-2008, 01:34 PM
For sure....you and the little one will be in my prayers.

Black Sabbath
14-07-2008, 01:42 PM
Hope all goes ok for him mate,he will be in our thoughts.Please keep us updated as best you can

Mud
14-07-2008, 02:14 PM
My prayers are with your son and family.

cableguy
14-07-2008, 02:50 PM
My thoughts and prayers to you, your son and family.

C.

TOO 4NOY
14-07-2008, 02:59 PM
bro inshallah it all goes well for you and your son. i shall surely remember to make due for you and your family.

sonny
14-07-2008, 03:06 PM
thoughts are with u geeza, u need anything u know im around the corner from u so just drop me a line.

Individual One
14-07-2008, 03:41 PM
God bless to your son, and family, hope all goes well mate.

Tilly
14-07-2008, 03:52 PM
keep your head up and stay strong, good luck pal I hope all goes well

BigFas
14-07-2008, 03:59 PM
You know i'm with you on this one brother. Will call you on Wednesday to see how you're getting on.

djsyxx
14-07-2008, 04:05 PM
hey man best wishes to you and the family and god willing everything will go just fine.

derek328
14-07-2008, 04:12 PM
Sincerely my best wishes to you and your son at this time, hope everything goes well.

SpeedTrap
14-07-2008, 04:40 PM
Stay Strong Ozzie - will be in our prayers....

Purvesh
14-07-2008, 04:45 PM
We spoke about this a while back mate. I'll definately be thinking of you guys, hope it all goes well. Thanks for letting us know, and do let us know how you get on.

All the best for now...

Vin
14-07-2008, 04:47 PM
Best wishes during this stressful time, take care

uberbmw
14-07-2008, 05:02 PM
All the best bro!

Doc Matt
14-07-2008, 05:03 PM
Thinking of you from the doc and mandy

mikem
14-07-2008, 05:54 PM
Hope everything goes well mate.

huzi7
14-07-2008, 06:03 PM
May Allah make it easy for you, your son and family

mnathan
14-07-2008, 06:42 PM
Is he a child? If so, the Paediatric Oncology unit in BCH is fantastic!
Will say a prayer for him tonight my friend.......

mho
14-07-2008, 06:49 PM
Ozzie, my thoughts and prayers are with your kid and family. I hope that everything goes well mate.

rahrah
14-07-2008, 08:02 PM
Inshallah, in all our prayers bruv.

kpkpkp
14-07-2008, 08:03 PM
Good luck and fingers crossed all goes well. I will have an extra prayer to say to the big man up stairs. Please let us know his progress.

Good Luck and God Bless you all.

Kp

SYE
14-07-2008, 08:05 PM
good luck and i hope all go's well for you and your family.

BMW JAY84
14-07-2008, 08:06 PM
Best wishes mate. Hope all goes well

litchy
14-07-2008, 08:18 PM
Threads like this are a reminder to us all that there are more important things in life than cars...Hope all goes well

Raj
14-07-2008, 08:51 PM
Our thoughts are with you and your family. Take care...

Satnam
14-07-2008, 09:18 PM
Ozzie.. best of luck my brother.. as sonny said if you need anything give us a shout as we are literally around the corner..

Sat

Y1 4MER
14-07-2008, 09:18 PM
Inshallah it will all go well, be strong for your boy and family . I will make dua for you and the little one

Akuma
14-07-2008, 10:40 PM
Hope the treatment goes well and that he returns to you in the best of health so that he may grow to look after you one day. Inshallah.

peter antoniou
14-07-2008, 11:12 PM
all my best wishes to you and your son mate. May god be with him every second.

Sajjad
14-07-2008, 11:43 PM
He will come back better than new Inshallah. My duas are with your fam

Mah_c180
14-07-2008, 11:49 PM
Bro i will remember your little one, and your family in my prayers and make dua. Inshallah it goes all well

jordan3054
15-07-2008, 01:17 AM
Is he a child? If so, the Paediatric Oncology unit in BCH is fantastic!


Yes he is



hopefully if everything goes well... he should be home for his 2nd birthday on the 13th september...


I wish you all the best Ozzie. Will remember you in my prayers. All the best

styler2002i
15-07-2008, 09:44 AM
thanks for the support guys... your kind words are more then comforting... right now... im seriously... shitting my load... sitting here in the office i cant think of anything other then my son... right now... hope i dnt get the sack... lol...

i will keep everyone posted with developments for sure....

again thanks for the support and kind words... its hard to comprehend but it means alot to both me and my wife that... complete strangers can be so kind and warm hearted...

ozzie...

Ash_z
15-07-2008, 12:01 PM
May all our duas and prayers be accepted Insha Allah. Ameen

scorcher
15-07-2008, 01:39 PM
I'm not a religious bloke, but being a fellow parent I can only imagine how much stress you and your family must be feeling.

Carrie and I are both thinking of you all.

Scholesy
15-07-2008, 01:41 PM
all the best mate. My thoughts are with you all

mystic sport
16-07-2008, 08:08 AM
I sincerely hope all goes well and your son is soon making a great recovery. Thoughts are with you guys.

BigFas
16-07-2008, 08:11 AM
Thinking of you today bro

m3tiko
16-07-2008, 08:19 AM
Yup for sure mate....thoughts are with you today.

Moe
16-07-2008, 08:33 AM
Inshallah today goes well bro

1295charlie
16-07-2008, 09:43 AM
hope awthing goes OK for the wee man,
slainte to you and yer family.

nass
16-07-2008, 10:47 AM
Inshallah all goes well for you and son bro! Will make special dua today for you all!

styler2002i
17-07-2008, 08:01 AM
thanks again guys... for your kind words... well thought i might let you know that the 1st day went very well... to the surprise of the doctors and us... .they expected him to be feeling groggy and sleepy by the end of the day... but he was far from it...

running around... like a nutter he.. is... even found time to peek under... the nurses uniform(thats my Boy)... i see him having a little fetish for a lady in uniform already... lol....

took him back home... and he was like nothing even happened to him... the docs were very surprised... and said it was very unusual.... hopefully... by the grace of god... hes like this during the whole... process...

again thanks for the kind words... and... encouragement means alot to my family...

Black Sabbath
17-07-2008, 08:04 AM
even found time to peek under... the nurses uniform(thats my Boy)... i see him having a little fetish for a lady in uniform already... lol....
Good boy ;) :) ,glad he has got on well during the early stages :)

madmatt m3
17-07-2008, 08:13 AM
like father like son hey dude???

hope everything goes well mate, our thoughts are with you. And as an echo of Sonny & Sat im only down the road so give me a bell if there is anything you need.

styler2002i
17-07-2008, 08:22 AM
like father like son hey dude???




DEFINATELY... :D :D :D :D :D


what i could do with is complete JL install... and a retrim... :D :D :D :D

Raj
17-07-2008, 11:20 AM
Really glad the first part went so well. As you say, hopefully he will be just as good through the rest of it.

Raz 323i
17-07-2008, 12:20 PM
Glad the hear it went well Ozzie. Inshallah it will be like this all the way for your and your family.

Raz

huzi7
17-07-2008, 08:46 PM
Mashallah thats very good news bro!!!

Satnam
17-07-2008, 09:19 PM
Good to hear that the lil ones ok.. keep us updated bud. and hope all goes well.. and lol at looking down the nurses top.. you got a good'n :D

Sat

M3-AQ
18-07-2008, 03:47 AM
bro, inshallah the little one will be ok!!

good to hear everything is going good so far

:)

Viking
18-07-2008, 12:04 PM
The best of luck!

styler2002i
18-07-2008, 07:03 PM
day 3.... and still no sign.... the chemotheraphy... is having any effects... hes still running around causing hell where ever he goes... if he stays like this... its gonna be brilliant... but from monday.. they are going to be stepping up the amount of medicine he has... so... i think things will slowly change... after that.... but so far... its been a dream... all my fears... are gone for now...

all i can say is.. kids are damn resilliant... for sure...

again thanks for the kind words... guys...

mystic sport
18-07-2008, 07:07 PM
Kids of your sons age are so relliant and tough. They really don't understand what is happening and bounce back from such severe things that would knock the crap out of us adults. So happy that he is responding well :) .

styler2002i
22-07-2008, 08:57 AM
hi chappies...

a little update... on my little one...

5 days into his treatment and hes doing well... has his ups and downs of course but hes doing very well... full of life and energy... which is surprising the doctors...

yesturday he had a tube inserted into his nose that travels down the throat and into the stomach to administer medicine.. and has so far been the scariest thing... 3 nurses had 2 hold him down so the doctor could carry out the procedure... and i so wanted to knock them out... while they were doing.. it... no parent can stand seeing the child in such pain.... but mashaAllah after a vomit and a little sleep he was back to his normal self...

tonight or 2morow night they are going to step up his medication so most likely hes gonna be feeling more ill but if the past 5 days are anything to go by then.. inshaAllah it wont effect him much...

oh another thing... a little girl... same age as my son... is in serious pain they found a tumour in her vagina.. about the size of a golf ball... .unfortunately... shes constantly in pain... but i think they found it early... so hopefully they can help her... remember her in ur thoughts, prayers... etc... and every other child... adult that is suffering....

Akuma
22-07-2008, 10:46 AM
You're a strong guy to be tolerating all this, good on you. I can't imagine myself in this situation. Thank God everything is going well.

djsyxx
22-07-2008, 01:16 PM
My gosh that must have been a painful procedute for him. Thinking about that makes me shiver, he sounds like he's a brave lad, and its good to hear he's responding well to the treatment so far touch wood.

adood84
22-07-2008, 08:32 PM
inshallah he will recover fully don't know how I missed this thread :S my prayers are with you and you family

Anees
22-07-2008, 09:03 PM
All the best wishes and prayers are with you.......

Nickleback
22-07-2008, 09:07 PM
He will pull through, a very close friend of mine had the same and 7 years after is still smiling ;)

Black_Ti
23-07-2008, 07:37 AM
God bless.

styler2002i
28-07-2008, 12:49 AM
quick update... having his last set of chemo over the last few day... in prep for his... BMT op on wednesday...

friday has been the worst so far... the dose of chemo... was pretty strong... and resulted in constant vomitting for about 3 hrs... .very painful to watch and experience and for the 1st time ever... i been really shaken... and felt unsteady...

hes stopped taking food, water milk.. or anything of the sort now... one cuz everytime he eats he vomits... and nobody likes the feeling... so hes on a solution drip... thats hydrating him at the moment... but i been told its for the best... (him not wanting food)...

monday is his last dose of chemo... and on tuesday when his immune system is non existant... they are gonna put him into isolation... to protect him from infection and then the following day the his bone marrow transplant op will happen...

sorry if its a bit hard 2 follow... heads a bit muddled at the moment...

peppernick
28-07-2008, 07:54 AM
All the very best. Very trying times but many people pull through and come out a lot stronger, and I'm sure your son will be one of them.

Raj
28-07-2008, 11:22 AM
As Nick, said, I am sure it will be a good outcome, but it is a lot to go through at such a young age.

styler2002i
12-08-2008, 09:43 AM
just some news...

on sunday while at the gaydon meet... wife texted me... and told me some wanderful news... it was so good i broke down in tears and Raj will testify... its the best news i have had in a LONG time and the most important...

the doctors sampled some blood from my son... and it showed some early indications of the bone marrow transplant being successful..... basically... the sample came back the his neutrifills have started to be produced and were at 0.1 yesturday the level had risen to 0.5... which is even better news...

bet ur thinking wat Neutrifils are? well Neutrifils are the big guns in the white cell family that fight infections! We've learned that this number seems to be the one the medical staff gets most excited about so with the levels increasing things are starting to looking good MashaAllah

inshaAllah if things get better he will be out of isolation with the next few days and if this continues then he will be coming home for a weekend... visit next week... so all good... MashaAlllah...

thanks again for all the kind words and support...

sonny
12-08-2008, 10:08 AM
just some news...

on sunday while at the gaydon meet... wife texted me... and told me some wanderful news... it was so good i broke down in tears and Raj will testify... its the best news i have had in a LONG time and the most important...

the doctors sampled some blood from my son... and it showed some early indications of the bone marrow transplant being successful..... basically... the sample came back the his neutrifills have started to be produced and were at 0.1 yesturday the level had risen to 0.5... which is even better news...

bet ur thinking wat Neutrifils are? well Neutrifils are the big guns in the white cell family that fight infections! We've learned that this number seems to be the one the medical staff gets most excited about so with the levels increasing things are starting to looking good MashaAllah

inshaAllah if things get better he will be out of isolation with the next few days and if this continues then he will be coming home for a weekend... visit next week... so all good... MashaAlllah...

thanks again for all the kind words and support...

good news man wont be too long before he's crusing around in the M3.

Black Sabbath
12-08-2008, 10:48 AM
That is really good news mate,very happy for you and your family in this trying time

mystic sport
12-08-2008, 11:27 AM
Fantastic news :D . He is a strong fighter. He will be running you ragged soon :p .

Moe
12-08-2008, 12:45 PM
Inshallah its all good news from now on. Keep us updates

Raz 323i
12-08-2008, 12:53 PM
Thats very good to hear mate. :)

FullHouse
12-08-2008, 01:09 PM
Really Happy for you Ozzie and your family, would love to meet this fighter one day, at a meet or in your neck of the woods, a warrior in making

uberbmw
12-08-2008, 01:45 PM
Awesome news buddy!

yavz
12-08-2008, 02:41 PM
Thats the best news iv heard in a very long time bro, happy for you and your fam, sure he will be 100% in no time.

huzi7
12-08-2008, 05:59 PM
Alhamdulillah that is awesome news bro!

styler2002i
03-09-2008, 10:58 AM
i no i havent updated this in a while... but i thought i might tell u boys.. that son was discharged from hospital on monday... and in back home... and causing havoc... as usual... not that im complaining of course not.... but to have him home is a huge relief... hes not in the clear yet.. but its a big step in the right direction...

guys.. cheers for the kind words and messages... really appreciated...

Raj
03-09-2008, 11:22 AM
Superb news mate.

Black Sabbath
03-09-2008, 11:51 AM
Excellent news mate :)

Moe
03-09-2008, 11:55 AM
Mashallah glad to hear he is back home and healthy i will be remembering him in my prayers

phat///M3
03-09-2008, 11:57 AM
Great news m8 all the best to your family.

Scholesy
03-09-2008, 12:00 PM
Superb news mate, glad to hear things are on the up :cool:

Raz 323i
03-09-2008, 12:45 PM
Thats wicked news man. Il remember to say a prayer for him.

Raz

huzi7
03-09-2008, 05:15 PM
Mashallah that is awesome news

scorcher
03-09-2008, 08:39 PM
That's fantastic news - so happy for you all :)

Purvesh
03-09-2008, 10:10 PM
So good to hear the news mate.

Mah_c180
03-09-2008, 11:07 PM
AlhumdulilAllah for that news bro. InshaAllah he gets better and fit again

gie0320
03-09-2008, 11:18 PM
Good news mate hope he makes full recovery.

Doc Matt
04-09-2008, 06:10 AM
Echo everyones comments above mate. :)